During life as a couple you usually go through different stages and phases, in which it is important to adapt in the best possible way so that the relationship works. However, after some time passes, it is not strange to wonder how to know if you are in love with your partner or if the bond simply continues out of habit. One of the most common reasons that cause this doubt is when one begins to get bored with the other person. Although this also usually has an explanation and a person responsible: routine.
From Monday to Friday, the days are based on commuting to and from work, studying, doing chores, and other less-stimulating responsibilities and chores. While the weekends are for resting at home or going to the same places as always. Fights or arguments that are constantly repeated also take place. And you end up making almost identical plans over and over again, week after week. This ends up wearing down a couple, whose goal should be to get out of that suffocating routine.
The phase of falling in love that was experienced at the beginning of the relationship is transforming into a new stage to which the couple gradually adjusts. And in which it will affect the routine. Sometimes, some people do not overcome this phase, so the relationship ends. But it is a generalization, many other times, the only problem for couples is that they are submerged in the routine and need to bring about a change.
Going through a stage of disagreement in the couple does not always mean that it is the end. The most important thing is to identify it, assume it and that both parties within the relationship communicate to solve it. You have to get out of the monotony.
