It may be that the younger sibling has an unusual attitude towards the older one, or, something that is common, that the parents realize that their child is jealous of the baby. Be that as it may, it is important to identify a case of jealousy between the siblings of a family as soon as possible. A task that is the responsibility of the parents, since they will be the ones who must take the relevant actions and help their children manage these feelings in the best possible way for the entire family nucleus. And, if not handled properly, jealousy can truly destabilize the balance of the home and family dynamics.
The causes behind this behavior can be varied, however, most cases have a series of common characteristics. A common reason for childhood jealousy has to do with the fear of being abandoned by their father and mother figures. This can be observed in behaviors intended to attract attention. However, it may also be due to the arrival of a new sibling at home, which is known as dethroned prince syndrome. Jealousy is more palpable during early ages, since minors still have great emotional needs.
Cases of jealousy between siblings present a series of common symptoms, generally intended to attract the attention of parents, which can help parents identify these situations as soon as possible.
The psychologist Montserrat Fernández advises parents to show an understanding attitude towards their children and treat jealousy as something natural, in order to guide them to manage it in the best way. Above all, you should not label them with negative comments, much less compare them with their siblings. The specialist highlights the importance of transmitting peace of mind and security. “They don’t have to worry about losing their parents’ love,” she declares.
