Growing up with a pet brings many benefits to children. It helps them develop empathy and responsibility, while creating a bond of complicity between animal and child as playmates. It is even a great help when it comes to better expressing their emotions and functioning in the environment that surrounds them, which is why dogs are often used as support for children with autism.
However, coexistence between pets and children is not always an easy task. It may happen that minors are afraid of animals, that some are jealous of others or that the animal has a hard time in the presence of children. After all, children like to play, they are very active, noisy and do not always measure their strength, which is why animals can feel overwhelmed or intimidated. It is also possible that it is the animal that does not know how to behave with children, managing that stress with behavioral problems.
Therefore, if we want a positive coexistence between children and pets, we must educate both to treat and respect each other. We must also keep in mind that there are breeds of dogs and cats more suitable for families with children, as they are more affectionate and playful than others with less patience and an inclination towards tranquility. Aside from that, it is essential to take a series of considerations so that children and dogs are faithful inseparable friends instead of irreconcilable enemies.
It will be very positive to get the animal used to the presence of children from when it is a puppy. If this is not possible, it is better to become familiar with the little one little by little, without forcing the situation. You can start by offering him some of his clothing so that he recognizes his scent and let the dog or cat approach the child whenever he feels like it.
Teach children how they should treat the animal: always with delicacy and respect. Explain how they can identify the dog or cat’s gestures, because with some postures or gestures they tell us how they feel, if they are in playful mode or prefer to be left alone. Tell them that they should try not to be abrupt, not shout, never pull their tail or ears and hug them or hold them carefully. Remember that they are living beings, not stuffed animals.
Get the children involved in the daily care of the animal. Accompany you on the walk, serve him food, brush his hair, play throw the ball… This will help strengthen your bond.
Make sure the animal has a place to go when it wants to spend time alone, out of the child’s reach. In addition, you have to respect his space and prevent the little one from disturbing him when he is resting or eating.
