the Other day I heard again a discussion in a radio show.
It was about how ignorant young people are about sex, and how dangerous it is for them to get acquainted with pornography at an early age.
The adults in the radio program sat almost giggling and fremstammede how their first experiences with porn movies and naughty magazines had been for them.
And how they knew NOTHING about the flower and the bee in their very young years. They also talked about issues around their parents ‘ berøringsangst by to talk about their own budding sexuality.
It got me to thinking about how I even at an early age, was faced with porn movies.
It was an ‘aha’-experience.
to do what You are not allowed to
We may scale back the time to the liberal-minded 1970s.
My parents had known already been started in some time, when they suddenly poured out of the door from their bedroom. I hung just out at home, and was playing with myself. It was before the Ipad was invented, and back then they had to use his imagination to entertain himself.
They stormed both half-naked past me in the kitchen while I was making myself a bowl of oatmeal, milk, and sugar.
They must have been on the way out to pick up some sex toys.
’Sussi, you must, for god’s sake, can’t go into our bedroom!’
You must know, we do not say to children, what they are not allowed, so they make it of course immediately.
Small Sussi was born curious, and I saw my incision to go into, while they were left a short note.
Porno in home
The first thing I saw was a large white canvas, and the sound of a cine film that spun.
It was not to be mistaken. That was shown porn movies in my home.
the porn movie the scene was set:
Beautiful naked women and men had sex with each other around a large swimming pool in the southern sun.
That was zoomed in on a naked woman, sitting on his haunches in front of a well-armed man, while she gave him a blowjob. She suck merrily on his big iron, and he looked contentedly down at her.
My young reaction was; Wow, it was exciting! I soaked up the film for me and had to see more.
It was my first encounter with a porno film, and of one or another inexplicable reason, I knew immediately what it was. It was sexy and exciting. Not at all scary or disgusting. Zero hazards.
My parents came back, and I had to hurry me out of the bedroom before they saw me.
Afterwards I was quite high from what I had seen. I was one experience richer, without even having participated in the fun.
It is gone good to me
Critics will probably say that here we have evidence of how wrong it can go for a little nice girl who comes in contact with the visual sex too early. I think the opposite.
I certainly have not been damaged by it. See how good it is gone me. In full control and with a healthy and free sexuality. That is not something to be afraid of. Young enough to even find out.
There are many other things in this world, I as a parent would worry me about the young people’s behalf.
Such as all the violence you see in, for example, the gaming industry.
My advice is: ‘Make love not war’.
