Sometimes it seems that luck is not on our side, as if it hides when it is most needed. However, there are those who maintain that you can go out to meet it instead of waiting for it to arrive on its own. The well-known psychologist Marian Rojas, together with Alberto Herrero, have addressed this fascinating topic in COPE.
During the talk, Herrero shared an observation about the positive outlook on life and how it can influence the perception of luck. “But I know many people who look at life with a smile and think that good things are going to happen to them. And there is something you talk about, and that is that if you think that good things are going to happen to you, good things can happen to you.” , commented the presenter.
For his part, Rojas delved into the concept of luck from a psychological and vital perspective, sharing his personal experiences and observations. “When I go to Southeast Asia, I go into the brothels, I rescue those girls and I see that smile, I say, but well, but where does that strength come from?” This question led him to delve into how some people seem to attract good luck, while others are constantly affected by adversity.
The specialist added: “There is a phrase that Seneca says that luck is where preparation and opportunity come together. Prepare, because when you prepare you perceive opportunities better, and I like that.” This approach suggests that luck may be partly a matter of being prepared to recognize and take advantage of opportunities that arise.
Rojas also pointed out the importance of optimism and enthusiasm in the relationship with luck. According to her, “it has been scientifically proven that when there is optimism in life” there is an area “of the brain stem, which is the reticular system, which means that what you are getting excited about can appear nearby.”
Therefore, what Rojas suggests is that a positive attitude and optimism are not just fleeting sensations, but rather have a biological foundation that can tangibly affect the perception of reality. That is, if someone is excited or expects good things, the reticular system can help them be more attentive to the opportunities or positive aspects around them. On the contrary, these details could be overlooked with more negative thinking.
