The footballer Luis Ojeda Suárez, who was a youth squad player for the UD Las Palmas youth team for two seasons, known for being the boyfriend of Lola Ortiz, a participant in Mediaset programs such as Mujeres y Hombres y Viceversa and Survivientes, died unexpectedly. suddenly last April at the age of 20.
Almost a year after her death, Lola Ortiz has wanted to speak openly about her grief after one of her followers on Instagram told her that she was very surprised that she was able to “go on as if nothing had happened” with her life.
The former survivor, Lola Ortiz is living a moment of happiness and that is that she has managed to fulfill one of the great dreams that she had carried since her childhood: to be Queen of the Carnival of her land, Las Palmas de Gran Canaria. However, the young woman is still very affected after the sudden death of her partner.
Through her social networks, Lola remembered the soccer player Luis Ojeda, with whom she dated in 2021 and who died suddenly for reasons that have not yet been publicly known today. After receiving various criticisms about the way to grieve or face her pain, Lola wanted to respond very emphatically.
You don’t love a person anymore for staying in a locked room crying for them. What happens after that death is your life, you decide how to cope with the trauma,” Lola wrote on her Instagram stories.
“You don’t go on as if nothing were going on inside, you go on as you can and as life has taught you. Nobody does it better or worse than anyone else, they do it in their own way. Minimizing the pain of others does not make you a better person, it makes you emotionally insensitive and ignorant. I have heard aberrational comments about this situation from people who have no idea what happened,” explained the young woman.
