It is one of man’s greatest objections in sexual arousal: the Woman take rarely the initiative to the erotic expression – and if she does, it’s all too subtly, that he understandeth it not.
Studies show that even in these egalitarian post #meto-sometimes it is the man who most plays up to the dance. It can then complain and think that it is because discriminates against women, cultural norms, or one can resign oneself and attributing it to the natural testosterone-contingent order.
You can also do something about the case itself.
For the men, too, will be requested, and that is exactly what a sexinitiativ is expressed. The initiative says: ‘You are sexy, you turn me on, I want you!’
The british sex therapist Tracey Cox lists 23 ways in which the woman can take the initiative without having to feel awkward, and the man will perceive. Here in the editorial office, we believe that the four ways are all plentiful.
Kiss & love – 27. apr. The 2015 kl. 23:43 Women afraid to show sexinitiativ
make an appointment with your girlfriend to you in the next month must take the initiative to sex. And that he will not be allowed.
It means that you suddenly need to feel about, and what you want to, and it can actually be liberating. Instead of feeling like you constantly sexbelejring of a man who presses on, you are now free to get in touch with your own horniness.
The perfect moment occurs rarely, so whenever you have the desire, then do something about it. Yes, there is both the mails to be sent, the dishes that need to be taken, and the offspring, who must be fed – but when the major light sources – the light, where you just have the desire to have the desire – crop up, then follow it to the door.
That in itself is titillating to take the lead, and a little bright will quickly rumble, once you get started.
Kiss & love – 4. may. 2019 – at. 23:44 It happens when your gf says no to sex
It may well be that you feel that your bland smile and toss of the hair is a crystal clear sign that now you will swipe.
Most likely he sees it not at all.
You must turn up the volume, if you need to penetrate. Be clear, direct, specific. Think filmforførelse and twist so the button up in the top ten. Instead of tantekysset, using his tongue. Replace Sloggi with labert lingerie. Send sms, where you describe what you will do to him when he comes home. Hop into the shower for him. Away from him with a blowjob. Give his hangups a loving squeeze.
Kiss & love – 23. jan. 2019 – at. 16:58 Not bright in the evening? Say no to sex this way
If your girlfriend is unfamiliar with, that you are a naughty puppy and takes the initiative, sees he might not be your signals, or maybe he just does not want – and you can feel rejected, usexet and udskammet at a time, so you’re thinking: ‘If you don’t want it, you can also just be free.’
And the vicious circle, we know only too well.
But think of how you have had it, when he has put up, and you do not want. How would you wish, he responded?
Do as the same even. Please be respectful and indulgent. And you can even choose to see his no as a challenge, a game, a dance about the bush.
Here it may be an advantage to develop a common code for ‘do you fancy sex?’, that gives you both the opportunity to say yes and no, without anyone losing face or feel the pressure.
Kiss & love – 30. nov. 2017 – at. 20:43 Learn how to say no to sex and have a better sex life
