The relationship between Isa Pantoja and her mother, the renowned artist Isabel Pantoja, is not going through its best moment. Mother and daughter have not seen each other for many months and have not had a relationship worthy of this type of bond. Despite everything, Isa is always there, with open arms, waiting for her mother to want to take the step of talking to her. “When he calls me I will go,” she explains in an interview with Lecturas. In it, the influencer opens up about how she feels in relation to her mother.
The truth is that the tonadillera has missed some of the most important moments in her daughter’s life (also her son, Kiko Rivera). For example, the latest controversy had to do with the absence of the artist at her daughter’s wedding with Asraf Beno, held last October 2023. The young woman did not lose hope until the last moment that her mother would show up. to the link… however, that never happened. The journalist Antonio Rossi, her colleague in Let’s See, warned her that her mother would not go “because she had more important things to do.” So it was.
Despite everything, she will never slam the door on her relationship with her mother. “Hearing this makes me feel much better. Hearing that my mother ignores me takes a weight off my shoulders, makes me understand that I am not entirely to blame; it confirms that the responsibility of rebuilding the relationship does not fall on me,” he explains in the interview given to Lecturas. The young woman reflects on this bond and on the adoption process that she experienced by the singer when she was just a child.
Despite all the bad times he has faced because of his mother, he assures that he does not think about everything that is published about the relationship between the two. “I’ve never heard her say those things, so I don’t think much about them. If I were sure that my mother was saying all those things about me, I’d say, ‘Now I can listen to people who tell me, ‘Forget it.’ of your mother.” Who I think of is Asraf and my son, no one else,” says the young woman for the aforementioned media.
Although the tonadillera always remains silent when it comes to this issue, the facts speak for themselves. The truth is that there was no call on the happiest day of her daughter’s life, her wedding, nor on the subsequent ones. The artist has not worried about anything surrounding the celebration nor about her grandson, with whom she used to share the happiest and most emotional moments. That really hurts Isa.
This March, little Alberto will turn 10 years old and he understands better and better what is happening around him. That is why, to avoid more unnecessary pain, Asraf Beno’s wife wanted to take an important step in her daily life and get rid of the enormous portrait of her mother that was in her living room. “If we don’t have a relationship, I don’t want my son to ask about her more than necessary. I also don’t have any photos of Asraf’s mother. It doesn’t make any sense that he doesn’t have one of mine and that he has one of my mother, who I don’t know.” I see it so close,” she says.
“I know I’m not going to regret anything because I’ve done my best,” explains Isa Pantoja. The young woman does not feel any guilt and is only saddened by the unfair situation that her son has to face, at such a young age. “It hurts me that my mother doesn’t want to talk to my son. The day will come when it won’t hurt so much, I guess,” she said. “It will be me and not his grandmother; he has had fewer things than I had, but he has had a normal childhood,” she said.
