Cecilie Hother and her boyfriend, Thomas Gregers, who together have a daughter, Elinor, lost their unborn son in early march of this year.

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Since Cecilie Hother has been very open about her loss and the grief she is experiencing. However, it has nevertheless been extremely difficult for her to put words to the intense grief she has experienced since march of this year.

– When we lost our son, I descended into a deep grief. The grief was so violent and intense that it jerked me to the ground. For a long time I did not understand my grief and could not put into words, writes Cecilie Hother on Instagram and elaborates:

– But then there was one of you, who sent me this from Tove Ditlevsen poem to me and suddenly I got put words on so many of the feelings that were unknown for me, but which now has taken permanent residence in my body.

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When we lost our son, I descended into a deep grief. The grief was so violent and intense that it jerked me to the ground. For a long long long time I did not understand my grief, and could not put into words. But then there was one of you, who sent this Tove Ditlevsen poem for me. And suddenly I got put words on so many of the feelings that were unknown to me, but which now has taken permanent residence in my body and soul. That goes longer and longer in between, but some evenings like this, where Elinor had fallen asleep with her arms about my neck, running tears down my cheeks at the missed on the small drengearme that would also have to lie about my neck, and the small warm body as I would also have put. But I see against the dark sky, and say goodnight to the little star in the sky. #englemor #takforsmukkeordtoveditlevsen

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