If anything has become clear this past decade, it’s that the former Disney girls have grown up. They themselves have taken it upon themselves to make it clear through their music, their films and their attitude towards the world and towards life. Although Miley Cyrus is one of the most remembered, and that has generated the most controversy, Selena Gomez is not far behind.

The one who was Alex Russo in The Wizards of Waverly Place has released a new song, Single Soon, in which he has not hesitated to open his heart, and talk about breakups and the freedom they entail. And it is that the singer has not had much luck in her love life, so it seems that she is very clear about what she wants for her next relationships.

“I think everyone goes through the ‘Oh, it would be nice to have someone’ phase, and I understand that. But you know, I’m just enjoying where I am,” the actress began to recount on SiriusXM Hits 1. It seems that she has managed to overcome some problems that she had with herself and that made it impossible for her to have a healthy relationship.

Selena Gomez has related that she wants to be happy with who she is and who she has become, so that she can be happy with the person who comes into her life “instead of being that insecure person that she used to be.”

But if there is one thing he has firmly stated, it is that he has set expectations with his future partners that he plans to fulfill without being ashamed. “It’s true, I demand this, this and this for you to be with me. And that’s how I feel, really,” she said.

Of course, the list of requirements is not very extensive and can easily be met by anyone: “I’m not looking for someone cool in the sense that others think you’re amazing. You just have to be nice and please make me laugh.” and also be good to my family and the people around me.” Conditions that he does not intend to ignore, no matter what happens.

It is not surprising that Selena Gomez wants a partner with certain conditions, since she has never been characterized by being very lucky in love. And her list of relationships is long. Nick Jonas, Taylor Lautner, DJ Zeed, Nial Horan, Charlie Puth and The Weeknd are some of these.

But if there is someone who has marked the heart of the former Disney star, it is Justin Bieber. From 2010 to 2018, the singers had several comings and goings, which did not end in the best way. Rumors of infidelity, lies and toxicity have always surrounded this relationship. Something that ended up affecting the actress psychologically, but that it seems that she has already been able to overcome.